Acceptance

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When we don’t accept ourselves sexually and sensually it’s pretty hard to imagine anyone else accepting us right? Or dare I say celebrating us!
As a recovering defense first human (I am a Scorpio after all!) I would receive a compliment and immediately launch in suspicion. Suspicion.
The pathway to sexual self acceptance for me was not “love and light” it was dark, stormy, treacherous and covered in traps. Traps I had set for myself. As I stepped over and through these, it allowed me to put my own experiences in the epicenter of my decision making when it came to sex.
Example: I know the norm is man on top or woman on top (man/man, woman/woman, insert your preferred experience or desire here!) but I’d really like to try _____ instead.
Guess what! Doing this can also benefit your partner! It can give them permission to be more open sexually too. When you both can truly be yourselves the end result is enjoyable sex!
This is NOT about improving yourself, but rather accepting. The first steps are the hardest and they go a little something like this.

✔️Figure out what you want
✔️Admit it to yourself
✔️Share it with your partner

No lingerie, new position, or toy can match true sexual authenticity.

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